I usually begin mediation sessions by asking a couple why they are coming to mediation. This helps people to remember what kind of process and outcome they are hoping for and lets me know how much they know about the process.
I met with a new couple last week, and when I asked them this question, I was blown away by their answers. In 5 minutes, they described the most idealistic mediation process and highlighted (what I see as) the benefits of mediation.
They said...
they want to stay amicable
mediation is less costly
mediation would allow them to maintain good communication
makes sense because they have a son
not a lot of contentious issues between them so, why enter a process which might create conflict?
avoid a war like session
get guidance and counsel from neutral, objective persons
won’t waste money
more antiseptic, won’t create big wounds
more transparent, by starting discussions in the room together, they would explore information together, and decide together
So beautiful!
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