Mediation vs. Litigation

Mediation Litigation
Average Cost $3,000 - $6,000 per couple $15,000 - $40,000 per spouse
How long it will take to get divorced You decide how long it will take to get divorced Lengthy negotiations, and court proceedings can take several years
Who decides the details of the divorce agreement You and your spouse work out details together, so that the things that are the most important to you will be in your agreement Lawyers and judges make decisions for you and your family
Who decide what’s best for your children Parents (not a judge) decide what’s best for your children Experts decide what’s best for your children
Lawyers used Primarily use only one lawyer. Retain two lawyers
Confidentiality All information remains confidential Courts keep your personal information